7 questions to ask yourself if you're cheating on your spouse Having an affair can be overwhelming in so many different ways, for so many...

Let’s be honest: cohabitating with your spouse/partner/significant other/special someone (hereafter referred to as your “person”) can be ...

Every now and then I’ll be at a party or a networking event or something like that, and someone will ask me – as people do – what I do fo...

There are so many messages out there in our culture about how romantic relationships are supposed to be a continuous source of joy and ha...

The holidays – a certain set of them, anyway – are nearly upon us. If you celebrate American Thanksgiving, that’s right around the corner...

You’re engaged to be married. And you’re starting to realize you have very mixed feelings about this state of affairs. You thought you wa...

Sometimes, when we think we did something wrong in the past – or think we failed to do something that we should have done – we beat ourse...

What exactly do I do? I help people work through situations that have to do with love, relationships, and sexuality. These elements of ou...

Your <child/sibling/partner/parent/best friend/next door neighbor/mentor/spiritual advisor> has been accused of a sex crime. Sex crimes, ...

I'm not endorsing the idea that any of the above-illustrated possibilities should actually go on anyone's list of deal-breakers, by the w...

Relationship deal-breakers come in many forms. Last week I posted about working in the sex industry and dating people who are uncomfortab...

You’ve been dating someone for a little while now. And they’re great. You’re starting to think that this could be the beginning of a beau...

You have a new job. In the sex work industry. Maybe you’re dancing. Maybe you’re escorting. Maybe you’ve turned your therapeutic massage...

Humans can be so difficult to live with sometimes Sometimes our fellow humans do things that we don’t like. Sometimes they do things that...

(or anything else you're kinda scared to talk to them about) Talking to your partner about your sex life (or lack thereof) can be difficu...

All of a sudden, you’re That Person. You’re not exactly sure how things got so carried away, but you know for sure that you can no longer...