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Dr. Marie Murphy

Get expert support from a coach who understands infidelity like nobody else does.

Without shame, blame, or judgment.

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Get expert support from a coach who understands infidelity like nobody else does.

Without shame, blame, or judgment.

BOOK YOUR INTRODUCTORY COACHING SESSION
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Dealing with your infidelity situation may be challenging! And, it is also TOTALLY do-able.

You just need the right guidance and support, and the right tools at your disposal.

And that’s exactly what I’ve got for you.

There are two ways you can have me as your coach:

One-on-One

PRIVATE COACHING | via Zoom

When we work together one-on-one, it’s all about you and the specifics of your unique infidelity situation. Our collaboration is consistent, rigorous, and intimate. The first step is to schedule an introductory coaching session with me. If you’re serious about resolving your infidelity situation – and changing your whole life for the better – let’s get to work.

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Self-Guided Course

You’re Not the Only One | online

In You’re Not the Only One, you will learn the tools and concepts you need to resolve your infidelity situation one step at a time, and you get tons of wise guidance and compassionate support. The teachings come in the form of videos and assignments, and are housed in an online portal that you can access 24/7, as soon as you enroll in the course. Ready for relief and empowerment? Let's get started!

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One-on-One

PRIVATE COACHING | via Zoom

When we work together one-on-one, it’s all about you and the specifics of your unique infidelity situation. Our collaboration is consistent, rigorous, and intimate. The first step is to schedule an introductory coaching session with me. If you’re serious about resolving your infidelity situation – and changing your whole life for the better – let’s get to work.

BOOK YOUR INTRODUCTORY COACHING SESSION
LEARN MORE ABOUT ONE-ON-ONE →

Self-Guided Course

You’re Not the Only One | online

In You’re Not the Only One, you will learn the tools and concepts you need to resolve your infidelity situation one step at a time, and I help you apply these powerful tools and concepts to the specifics of your own life. The teachings come in the form of videos and assignments, and are housed in an online portal that you can access 24/7, as soon as you enroll in the course. Once these tools are in your hands, change is yours to make.

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Whether you enroll in my course or we work together one-on-one, I provide you with liberating new ways of looking at and dealing with your infidelity situation.

This allows you to take responsibility for your actions in a way that feels empowering to you.

When we’re dealing with complicated, nuanced aspects of the human experience that are commonly considered taboo, we have to go beyond conventional wisdom and accepted dogmas if we want to arrive at solutions that are actually solutions!
I lead you out of the realm of shame and guilt and judgment, and into the arena of compassionate curiosity. When we get out of judgment and into compassionate curiosity, it’s much easier to cut through the noise and confusion, and carefully examine what’s important to you.

I also provide you with tools and practices that will enable you to systematically and deliberately deal with your infidelity situation.

You need to be able to deal with the intense emotions that often come with infidelity without letting your emotions dictate your actions.

You need to be able to think clearly and systematically, and make decisions for distinct reasons that you like.

And you need to be able to take action in the service of your decisions.

Although you may find it easy to do these things in other areas of your life, doing them within the context of your infidelity situation may seem really hard – or downright impossible.

But I’m going to help you change that. One manageable step at a time.  

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I help people deal with all aspects and phases of infidelity situations, such as:

starDealing with the confusion, guilt, anxiety, and all of the other challenging feelings that often come with infidelity.

starDeciding which relationship(s) you want to pursue – and which you may want to end.

starDealing with the fear of making choices that will hurt other people’s feelings, or disrupt other people’s lives.

starDeciding whether or not to tell someone you’ve cheated on them.

starContending with the fear of making the “wrong decision” about your relationship(s) – and regretting it.

starHow to deal with getting caught cheating.

starConfronting your fears about what might happen if you were to leave a committed relationship… and completely change your family life.

starGrieving the end of a secret affair.

starThe process of breaking up with someone you care very much about – perhaps your spouse, perhaps your affair partner – in a manner that is compassionate and effective.

starRecommitting to your spouse/partner after you’ve cheated.

starDealing with other people’s opinions about your infidelity.

starEvaluating your relationship to monogamy.

starManaging the highs and lows of choosing to continue cheating.

starNavigating the transition from an affair relationship to a non-affair relationship.

starWeighing the financial cost of getting divorced against what you stand to gain from being able to live a life outside of your marriage.

starNavigating the aftermath of a messy affair.

star…and so much more.

I help people deal with all aspects and phases of infidelity situations, such as:

starDealing with the confusion, guilt, anxiety, and all of the other challenging feelings that often come with infidelity.

starDeciding which relationship(s) you want to pursue – and which you may want to end.

starDealing with the fear of making choices that will hurt other people’s feelings, or disrupt other people’s lives.

starDeciding whether or not to tell someone you’ve cheated on them.

starContending with the fear of making the “wrong decision” about your relationship(s) – and regretting it.

starHow to deal with getting caught cheating.

starConfronting your fears about what might happen if you were to leave a committed relationship… and completely change your family life.

starGrieving the end of a secret affair.

starThe process of breaking up with someone you care very much about – perhaps your spouse, perhaps your affair partner – in a manner that is compassionate and effective.

starRecommitting to your spouse/partner after you’ve cheated.

starDealing with other people’s opinions about your infidelity.

starEvaluating your relationship to monogamy.

starManaging the highs and lows of choosing to continue cheating.

starNavigating the transition from an affair relationship to a non-affair relationship.

starWeighing the financial cost of getting divorced against what you stand to gain from being able to live a life outside of your marriage.

starNavigating the aftermath of a messy affair.

star…and so much more.

"She helped me dismantle my own value judgments around infidelity, and helped me process all of the emotions that I was having."

"Talking with Marie was always a joy, even when our coaching conversations covered topics I found difficult to contend with. She was always lively and upbeat, and the tools and resources she shared with me were very helpful. She helped me dismantle my own value judgments around infidelity, and helped me process all of the emotions that I was having about participating in what could be considered infidelity.

Throughout the course of our work together, I questioned a lot of social constructs about what marriages, relationships, and friendships should and shouldn’t be, and this helped me draw conclusions about what I wanted to do about my infidelity. Reconciling what felt right for me vs. what I thought society expected of me helped me come to terms with a relationship that I value tremendously… even if society might frown upon it."

P.K.

Ready for some relief and a clear path forward? Let’s get to work.

The rest of your life - beyond the drama and difficulty of your infidelity situation – is waiting for you!

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Ready for some relief and a clear path forward? Let’s get to work.

The rest of your life - beyond the drama and difficulty of your infidelity situation – is waiting for you!

BOOK YOUR INTRODUCTORY COACHING SESSION
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