13: A Private Investigator's Perspective on Infidelity with Art Tilis

Dec 02, 2020

Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn:

  • Art Tilis’s process when he gets a call from someone who suspects their partner is cheating

  • How Art gathers information about a suspected cheater

  • Art’s longest case: someone who wasn’t cheating

  • Art shares some of his more dramatic cases—and his clients’ reactions

  • Telltale signs to look out for if you think you’re under surveillance

  • What are your rights if you are being followed?

  • Art’s advice for someone who suspects their partner is cheating

  • How to connect with Art Tilis

In this episode…

We’ve all seen the movies: someone suspects they’re being cheated on, so they call a private investigator to follow their partner in a high-speed chase that ends in a dramatic scene. However, the reality is just a bit different.
Art Tilis, a private investigator and the Owner of Foglight Investigations, has received many calls from clients who believe their partner is having an affair. According to Art, the investigation process is a bit different from what we’ve seen on television and the big screen—but he has still experienced his fair share of climactic scenes, pun intended.
Join Dr. Marie Murphy in this episode of Your Secret is Safe with Me as she sits down with Art Tilis, a private investigator and the Owner of Foglight Investigations. Together, they talk about Art’s process for investigating a suspected cheater, some of the more interesting cases he’s had, and his advice for if you suspect your partner may be having an affair. Stay tuned.

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About Art Tilis

Artur (Art) Tilis is a private investigator and the Owner of Foglight Investigations, a licensed and insured San Francisco-based private investigation firm. Starting as a law enforcement officer and detective for the San Francisco Police Department, Art has over 10 years of experience in investigations.

A man of many talents, Art also holds a Bachelor of Science from San Francisco State University, is fluent in English, Russian, and Ukrainian, and spent 10 years playing basketball in the semi-professional league.

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