You're NOT the Only One.

Your source of wise, non-judgmental guidance and personalized coaching on how to deal with your infidelity situation.

If you're ready to start dealing with your infidelity situation in a way you can feel great about, this program will help you deal with your feelings, clarify what you want, and make decisions about what you're going to do.

In this program, you’ll receive teachings that are based on all the wisdom I’ve gained from helping hundreds of clients resolve their infidelity situations. The lessons are delivered to you in the form of videos and worksheets, which you can access anytime online.

What You'll Learn:

  • How to deal with the intense emotions associated with your infidelity situation;

  • How to manage your mind so that you can think about your infidelity situation in a way that actually helps you get MORE of what you want;

  • Why it’s so important to deal with your thoughts and feelings effectively if you want to take ACTION around your infidelity situation;

  • How to deal with other people so that they don’t drive you crazy… or become the reason why you make decisions that you don’t really like;

  • How to make decisions about your relationships that you feel great about… without fearing that you’ll regret them later;

  • How to end a relationship effectively and lovingly;

  • How to create the kinds of relationships you WANT to have.

I want it!
I want it!

You're Not the Only One DIY Self-Guided Course

$399

Here's What You Get

  • A private, online portal that you can access at any time to get the guidance you need;
  • Course videos that deliver guidance on all of the things you've been worrying about (and some you didn't know you needed!)
  • Worksheets that help you address specific areas of your infidelity situation that might be tripping you up, dealing with your thoughts and feelings, and more.
  • All the information and the motivation you need to take the action that helps you solve your infidelity situation in a way that feels great to YOU! 





 

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You're Not the Only One Secret Society Group Coaching

$1,499

Here's What You Get

  • A private, online portal that you can access at any time to get the guidance you need;
  • Course videos that deliver guidance on all of the things you've been worrying about (and some you didn't know you needed!)
  • Worksheets that help you address specific areas of your infidelity situation that might be tripping you up, dealing with your thoughts and feelings, and more.
  • All the information and the motivation you need to take the action that helps you solve your infidelity situation in a way that feels great to YOU! 
  • PLUS: Regularly scheduled group coaching calls where you can get coached and listen to other folks getting coached;
  • PLUS: A private podcast to listen back to previous group coaching calls;
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 Course Outline:

Unit 1: Taking Inventory

Your Infidelity Situation: Taking Inventory
Clarifying Your Goals

Unit 2: Essential Tools and Concepts

Introduction: Building Awareness
The Think-Feel-Act Cycle and the Model
Understanding Infidelity with the Model
The Power of Your Mind
Dealing with Your Emotions
Using the Model to Create Change
How to Digest an Emotion

Unit 3: Dealing with Other People 

Other People are Neutral Circumstances in Your Model
You are a Neutral Circumstance in Other People's Models
Other People's Opinions of Us
People-Pleasing 

Unit 4: Making Decisions

Decisions are Awesome
What Decisions Do You Want to Make?
How to Make a Decision
Dealing with Our Fear of Making Decisions
Making Decisions You Don't Regret
Keeping Your Decisions in Perspective

Unit 5: Ending A Relationship

Breakups Do Not Have to be Awful
Preparing for a Breakup
Executing the Breakup
The Intimacy of a Breakup
The Infidelity Factor

Unit 6: Creating the Relationships You Want to Have

Clarifying What You Want in a Relationship
Embracing Your Preferences...And Tolerating Other Humans' Imperfections

I'm ready for change!

You're Not the Only One Secret Society Group Coaching

$1,499

Here's What You Get

  • A private, online portal that you can access at any time to get the guidance you need;
  • Course videos that deliver guidance on all of the things you've been worrying about (and some you didn't know you needed!)
  • Worksheets that help you address specific areas of your infidelity situation that might be tripping you up, dealing with your thoughts and feelings, and more.
  • All the information and the motivation you need to take the action that helps you solve your infidelity situation in a way that feels great to YOU! 
  • PLUS: Regularly scheduled group coaching calls where you can get coached and listen to other folks getting coached;
  • PLUS: A private podcast to listen back to previous group coaching calls;
Purchase Here

You're Not the Only One DIY Self-Guided Course

$399

Here's What You Get

  • A private, online portal that you can access at any time to get the guidance you need;
  • Course videos that deliver guidance on all of the things you've been worrying about (and some you didn't know you needed!)
  • Worksheets that help you address specific areas of your infidelity situation that might be tripping you up, dealing with your thoughts and feelings, and more.
  • All the information and the motivation you need to take the action that helps you solve your infidelity situation in a way that feels great to YOU! 
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Knowing that you aren’t the only one can be a tremendous relief.

 

Even if you feel incredibly isolated as you deal with your infidelity situation, you are actually part of a community of people who are grappling with challenges that are similar to yours.

 Course Outline:

Unit 1: Taking Inventory

Your Infidelity Situation: Taking Inventory
Clarifying Your Goals

Unit 2: Essential Tools and Concepts

Introduction: Building Awareness
The Think-Feel-Act Cycle and the Model
Understanding Infidelity with the Model
The Power of Your Mind
Dealing with Your Emotions
Using the Model to Create Change
How to Digest an Emotion

Unit 3: Dealing with Other People 

Other People are Neutral Circumstances in Your Model
You are a Neutral Circumstance in Other People's Models
Other People's Opinions of Us
People-Pleasing 

Unit 4: Making Decisions

Decisions are Awesome
What Decisions Do You Want to Make?
How to Make a Decision
Dealing with Our Fear of Making Decisions
Making Decisions You Don't Regret
Keeping Your Decisions in Perspective

Unit 5: Ending A Relationship

Breakups Do Not Have to be Awful
Preparing for a Breakup
Executing the Breakup
The Intimacy of a Breakup
The Infidelity Factor

Unit 6: Creating the Relationships You Want to Have

Clarifying What You Want in a Relationship
Embracing Your Preferences...And Tolerating Other Humans' Imperfections

Why Choose Group Coaching?
 



You're ready to approach your infidelity situation in a new way - and you would like some help doing it.


I respect the fullness of your humanity, and the complexity of your situation, no matter what you’re doing.  My job is to help you resolve your infidelity situation in a way that’s truly right for YOU.  No shame, no blame, no judgments.

I’m not going to shove prescriptive advice down your throat, and I'm NOT going to tell you what you SHOULD do or HAVE to do. 

Seeing that others can SUCCESSFULLY deal with the challenges of their infidelity situation can be a tremendous source of inspiration and empowerment.

Group coaching provides the opportunity for you to see that even if you feel incredibly isolated as you deal with your infidelity situation, you are actually part of a community of people who are grappling with challenges that are similar to yours.

What People Are Saying...

 I’d been a serial cheater for years, and had gotten to the point where I thought I was beyond help – even though I desperately wanted to change. Marie’s approach helped me make changes in my long-established patterns that I didn’t think were possible. I have an entirely different relationship with myself AND my partner now, and I no longer fear that I’ll cheat again.” -A.Y. 

 Before I started working with Marie, about 90% of my mental energy was dedicated to worrying about my affair (which had been going on for years) and what to do about it – and to judging myself for what I was doing...Now I have 90% more mental energy available to living my amazing life, and doing the important work that I do in my job. I’m immensely grateful.” -L.T.

My only regret is that I didn’t start working with Marie sooner. I’d been stuck in limbo for a long time, trying to decide what I wanted to do about my affair. The idea of leaving my marriage terrified me, and I was too scared to think straight. Marie helped me address my fears, and helped me finally be honest about what I really wanted. I ended up deciding to leave my marriage, and I literally cannot believe how good my life is these days. I have a great relationship with my ex, and an amazing relationship with my partner… who used to be my affair partner.” – R.B.

I Want That Too!

 If you’re engaging in anything that you think counts as infidelity, you need guidance and support that respects the fullness of your humanity, and the complexity of your situation. You don’t need a professional with a weird agenda to throw a bunch of thinly – or not-so-thinly – veiled judgment at you.

That’s where I come in. I’m not going to shove a bunch of prescriptive advice down your throat or tell you what you should do or have to do. I’m going to help you figure out what you want, and what you want to do about it. 

I’m trained and certified as a life coach from the Life Coach School, and Martha Beck’s Wayfinder life coach training.

I have a Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and mbachelor’s degree is in sociology and human sexuality studies from San Francisco State University.

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