145: Don’t Wait to Get Caught
The idea behind this podcast isn't to sow fear or suggest that if you're in an infidelity situation, you'll definitely get caught. If you cheat, you might never get caught. Plenty of people don't, and there are things you can do to reduce the possibility of getting caught. However, people often do get caught for preventable and unpreventable reasons.
Some people keep their infidelity situations going because they don't know what they want. They think being in this state of not knowing offers them some protection, as they haven't made the difficult decision yet. However, whether you know what you want or not, getting caught would probably be extremely unpleasant. In fact, the idea of getting caught might just be the motivation you need to take it upon yourself to resolve your infidelity situation before things get even messier.
Tune in this week to discover why Dr. Marie Murphy believes that while you might never get caught cheating, you probably shouldn't wait until you do before you start making decisions about what you really want from your relationships and deal with those decisions in the least stressful way possible.
If you’re ready to take this topic deeper in a confidential and compassionate environment, you can schedule an introductory coaching session with Dr. Marie Murphy by clicking here!
What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
Why getting caught won’t help you decide what you want from your relationships.
How you might currently believe you want to get caught because it will make your decisions easier.
Why getting caught cheating doesn’t mean your primary partner will decide to leave you, even if they’ve said in the past that they would.
What you need to keep in mind as you work through the discomfort of making a decision.
How to be proactive in deciding about your infidelity situation, instead of waiting to get caught.
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