Marie Murphy
117: Jealousy
Jealousy occurs within the context of any relationship. However, when you’re shifting from an affair into a non-affair relationship, it’s...
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Marie Murphy
- Nov 24
- 2 min
116: Uniquely Difficult Situations in Life
Dr. Marie Murphy shows you why waiting to make a decision probably isn’t going to make your unique situation any easier.
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Marie Murphy
- Nov 17
- 2 min
115: From an Affair to a Non-Affair Relationship
Tune in to discover what you’re trying to avoid by telling yourself you can’t transition from an affair to a non-affair relationship.
115 views
Marie Murphy
- Nov 10
- 2 min
114: Questioning Common Beliefs About Marriage
Tune in this week to start questioning the common beliefs about marriage that make so many infidelity situations so much more difficult.
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Marie Murphy
- Nov 2
- 2 min
113: Wanting Something and Not Having It Yet
How to start getting clear on the outcome you want for your infidelity situation, while dealing with the intense feelings of not having it.
125 views
Marie Murphy
- Oct 26
- 2 min
112: Being a Human Feels Terrible Sometimes
Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing why the traditionally prescribed intolerance of feeling awful isn’t actually helpful.
93 views
Marie Murphy
- Oct 19
- 2 min
111: The Price of Convenience
Tune in this week to discover the price of living in convenience over taking the uncomfortable action.
127 views
Marie Murphy
- Oct 12
- 2 min
110: What Do You Owe Someone You’ve Cheated On?
Discover what you might or might not owe somebody you’ve cheated on. You’ll learn a technique for examining your beliefs.
158 views
Marie Murphy
- Oct 5
- 2 min
109: You Don’t HAVE to Make a Decision
Tune in this week to discover why it may be helpful to hold off on making a decision.
144 views
Marie Murphy
- Sep 28
- 2 min
108: Why Do People Cheat?
Discover why people cheat, and why so many people are genuinely afraid of being cheated on.
191 views
Marie Murphy
- Sep 21
- 2 min
107: Is Monogamy (Un)Natural?
“Is monogamy natural or unnatural?” This seems on the surface like a good question to ask yourself, but there’s a little more to it.
67 views
Marie Murphy
- Sep 14
- 2 min
106: Ask Yourself the Right Questions
Many of us have a basic assumption that life needs to make sense. We can interrogate this desire for a coherent narrative of ourselves.
106 views
Marie Murphy
- Sep 7
- 2 min
105: It May Be Time to Chuck Your Checklist
Discover why your attempts to systematically compare your relationships aren’t helping you make a decision, and why it may be time to chuck
93 views
Marie Murphy
- Aug 31
- 2 min
104: The Courage to Make Changes and Choices
What courage is, and how to approach any change you want to make in your life while embracing the inherent challenges that will appear.
149 views
Marie Murphy
- Aug 24
- 2 min
103: Dealing with a Vindictive Affair Partner
If you’re dealing with a vindictive affair partner and you’re spinning in the terrifying possible consequences, this episode is for you.
127 views
Marie Murphy
- Aug 17
- 2 min
102: You Got Caught Cheating
Tune in this week for some non-judgmental advice if you’ve been caught in the act of cheating, or been presented with irrefutable evidence o
100 views
Marie Murphy
- Aug 11
- 2 min
101: What Physical Pain Teaches Us About Emotional Pain
In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about what we can learn from emotional discomfort.
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Marie Murphy
- Aug 4
- 2 min
100: The Point of Resolving Your Infidelity Situation
In this episode, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about different methods of solving an infidelity situation and understanding the benefits of change.
195 views
Marie Murphy
- Jul 28
- 2 min
99: What Do You Expect Out of a Romantic Relationship?
In this episode, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about navigating the beliefs and expectations about romantic partnerships.
99 views
Marie Murphy
- Jul 21
- 2 min
98: Stop Telling Yourself These Three Things Right Now
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward
182 views
Marie Murphy
- Jul 13
- 2 min
97: Re-Engaging in a Relationship After an Affair, Part 2
On this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about the process of re-engaging with your partner after an affair
109 views
Marie Murphy
- Jul 7
- 2 min
96: When You Leave Your Marriage but Your Affair Partner Doesn't
Dr. Marie Murphy talks about how to decide what you want your romantic future to look like, even without your affair partner.
116 views
Marie Murphy
- Jun 30
- 2 min
95: Dealing with a Needy Affair Partner
In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about understanding and navigating neediness in your affair.
137 views
Marie Murphy
- Jun 23
- 2 min
94: Is It Cheating if Your Spouse Has Alzheimer's?
In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy is joined by Loretta to discuss how to create your own happiness.
71 views
Marie Murphy
- Jun 16
- 2 min
93: Allowing Yourself To Want What You Want
In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about figuring out the feelings and emotions of your desires.
185 views
Marie Murphy
- Jun 9
- 2 min
92: Holding Our Desires Lightly With Katy Dion
In today’s episode, Katy Dion, a mindfulness-based life coach, chaplain, facilitator, and writer, speaks about rectifying her own desires.
193 views
Marie Murphy
- Jun 2
- 2 min
91: The Intensity of a New Affair
In this episode, Dr. Marie Murphy talks about the intensity of the emotions that accompany a new infidelity situation.
173 views
Marie Murphy
- May 26
- 2 min
90: Should I Go to Couples Therapy?
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
80 views
Marie Murphy
- May 19
- 2 min
89: Does Having an Affair Doom Your Marriage to Failure?
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
117 views
Marie Murphy
- May 12
- 2 min
88: When Bad Sh*t Happens
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
109 views
Marie Murphy
- May 5
- 2 min
87: Relationships, Divorce, and Money With Jessie Susannah Karnatz
Jessie Susannah Karnatz, aka the “Money Witch,” is a financial consultant who specializes in intuitive financial coaching.
88 views
Marie Murphy
- Apr 28
- 2 min
86: When Your Affair Partner Ghosts You
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach, specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward..
1,799 views
Marie Murphy
- Apr 21
- 2 min
85: Past vs. Future Focus
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
135 views
Marie Murphy
- Apr 14
- 2 min
84: Making Plans for the Future With Your Affair Partner
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
245 views
Marie Murphy
- Apr 6
- 2 min
83: Boundaries with Melissa Hite
In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy is joined by Melissa Hite, Founder and Sexual-Spiritual Advisor...
97 views
Marie Murphy
- Mar 31
- 2 min
82: How to Cheat and Keep Your Sanity Intact
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
176 views
Marie Murphy
- Mar 24
- 2 min
81: Conflict and Compatibility
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
85 views
Marie Murphy
- Mar 17
- 2 min
80: It's Not Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy
Listen as Dr. Murphy talks about why you shouldn’t depend on your partner for happiness, the power of unintentional thoughts.
71 views
Marie Murphy
- Mar 10
- 2 min
79: Being Honest With Yourself
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
156 views
Marie Murphy
- Mar 3
- 2 min
78: Lying About Infidelity
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
179 views
Marie Murphy
- Feb 24
- 2 min
77: Infidelity, Shame, and Perfectionism
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
152 views
Marie Murphy
- Feb 17
- 2 min
76: Regret
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
127 views
Marie Murphy
- Feb 10
- 2 min
75: Perfectionism and Relationships
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
69 views
Marie Murphy
- Feb 3
- 2 min
74: Dealing With Guilt and Shame
Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
119 views
Marie Murphy
- Jan 27
- 2 min
73: What To Say When You Break Up With Someone
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
158 views
Marie Murphy
- Jan 20
- 2 min
72: Preparing for a Breakup
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward —...
160 views
Marie Murphy
- Jan 13
- 2 min
71: When You Love Your Partner And You Still Want To Cheat
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
208 views
Marie Murphy
- Jan 6
- 2 min
70: What Does It Mean To Be Selfish?
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
163 views
Marie Murphy
- Dec 30, 2021
- 2 min
69: Making Changes In 2022
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
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Marie Murphy
- Dec 23, 2021
- 2 min
68: Infidelity and Death
Dr. Marie Murphy is a Relationship Coach specializing in helping people who are having affairs make decisions on how to move forward...
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