Marie Murphy, Ph.D.

Relationship Coach

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If you are having an affair, it's okay to admit it.

Your secret is safe with me.

Having an affair can be exhilarating and amazing.

And it can also be very, very stressful and confusing.

You may feel more alive than you ever have before.  You may be having great sex for the first time in a long time – or the first time ever.  You may feel more connected to your New Person than you ever have to anyone else.  And all of that is wonderful.

But then there’s the guilt.  You never meant to get yourself into this mess of infidelity and deception.  The whole thing goes against the grain of your values, and the complicated logistics of the affair are starting to wear you out.

YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO “DO THE RIGHT THING,”

…BUT YOU AREN’T SURE WHAT THE RIGHT THING IS.

Good news. I can help you figure it out.

I was finally able to think clearly!

​“When I found myself having an affair, everything I thought I knew about myself went out the window. I felt so bad about what I was doing that it was hard for me to think clearly about what I wanted to do about my marriage and my affair. Marie helped me stop beating myself up and start being honest with myself. I was finally able to think clearly about what I wanted, and move forward.”

B.Z.

Hi, I’m Dr. Marie Murphy. I’m a relationship coach with a Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality. I help people who are having affairs decide what’s truly right for them.

There’s no one-size-fits-all way to deal with having an affair. I’m not going to shove a bunch of prescriptive advice down your throat, or tell you what you SHOULD do or HAVE to do. 

I provide non-judgmental, one-on-one relationship coaching that’s tailored to your specific needs. Together, we’ll figure out what you want, and what you want to do about it.

Great relief!

“Working with Marie brought me great relief right away. 

I didn’t want to tell anyone about my affair, because I was afraid of the reaction I might get, but I knew I needed help.  Marie was kind and understanding, and from our very first session, I felt like she had so much compassion for what I was going through.”

P.K.

I know it can be tempting to avoid dealing with your affair.

Sweeping the whole thing under the rug forever - or at least for a little while longer - might seem like a GREAT idea.

It may seem impossible to figure out what you really want, especially when all you can think about is what other people expect of you… or what others might say if they find out about your affair.

And it may be terrifying to contemplate what might happen if you set the wheels of change in motion. 

But aren’t you ready to put an end to the drama, already?

If you’re done with the status quo, tired of the indecision, and ready to make a change, let’s talk about how I can help you do that. 

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You don’t have to do it all at once.  You can take it one step at a time.

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And I'll help you do it.

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Schedule your first coaching session today.

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You have choices.  Really.

You’re worthy of wanting what you want, and having what you want.

The process of figuring out what you want and going after it is worth it.  Promise.

Well worth it!

“Marie helped me find the courage to deal with the major life transitions that came about as a result of my relationship choices.  It wasn’t easy, but it was well worth it.  Marie’s support made a huge difference.”

C.L.

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